YVONNE FUNG: April 2013

Meet in meet up with friends always benefited every time, especially long lost friends, talk to total a pleasant surprise.

Just stumble across the decades have not seen a friend in a gathering dinner. We are not familiar, the opportunity to play face to face, the opportunity to go into the details. You ask me who he or she is, what the real name is, what the job is, I can not answer you exact. Life, however, is a kind of friend, everything about life or not on the track, but why it would be a word awakened dream. Perhaps it is because he is not familiar with you, you share all that he can be an objective analysis and listening.

Freshness, share of problems inherent in the topic is that you have very little contemplation. Re looking at things with a new point of view, you will find that those of their own problems may have the answers, you may no longer see it as the problem, but also because nowhere in sight, the dusty tangle will be a friend of the re-shock purification .

People familiar with you and you always have some prejudices, they think it is clear to you sort of person, when you played any changes or touch what wall they think you would have been some problems. They remind you is the old things, you can also self-reflection yourself in a thousand times. When you come across a long time not seen you all a sense of curious people, he is willing to give renewed attention and listened with you once, you will find the kind of sincere friendship among you miss. Original understanding of whether or not not know the length of time of the other, but the kind of care for warmth makes you feel like a spring breeze.

Friendship, like love, heart grow fonder. When you think you are already very familiar with the friend, the end of the day, you have found you have missed a friend changes, this is a friendship in which a crack. Many good friends, and there are several of you think you truly care for the change?

生命中就是有種朋友，生活上的一切都接不上軌，偏偏卻會被他一言驚醒夢。也許是因為他不熟悉你，你所分享的一切他都能夠客觀的分析與聆聽。可能是新鮮感，也可能是分享的話題是你已很少觀照的內在問題。重新用個新角度看事情，你會發現，可能那些自身問題已經有了答案，也可能你已不再將它看成問題，又可能是因為久違了，塵封的糾結會被朋友的重新衝擊淨化。

相約很久不見的朋友，傾談中總有意外收穫。熟悉你的人對你總有一些偏見，他們已自以為很清楚你的為人，當你起了甚麼變化或碰了甚麼壁，他們第一時間聯想到的會是你一直有的問題。他們提醒你的，你自己也可以面壁自省在腦袋訓話自己千次的審視。當你碰上一個良久不見，對你的一切感好奇的人時，他願意重新注意和留心聆聽你一次，你會發現，在友誼之中那種誠懇是你懷念的。原來了解與否不是認識時間長短之別，而是那種被關懷的溫暖感讓你感覺如沐春風。

友誼跟愛情一樣，小別勝新婚。當你自認為已經很熟悉那位朋友，到頭來你卻發現你已錯過了這位朋友的變化，這是友誼的其中一道裂痕。好朋友眾多，你自認真心關懷其變化的卻有幾個？